A Transformational Approach
to Therapeutic Mentoring 

James approach and commitment to mentorship is admirable. He’s aided many prospective mentors, families and clients alike in evolving and working towards healthy and fulfilling lives. His dynamic mentorship approach is seemingly endless and he’s a real pro at working with people from all different backgrounds with the outmost respect, professionalism and dedication on their path towards wellness. James’ North Star Vision of being more whole in his own life, working towards his calling while also serving others has made him an exceptional mentor. He has facilitated and challenged me to evolve in my relationships and the same could be said for many others. He really demonstrates his gentle wisdom through his actions. Thank you James for all of your hard work and commitment to excellence in Noble Mentorship! The results simply speak for themselves.

Noble mentors helped me greatly as a young adult. Living multiple states away from immediate family and struggling with mental health was a dangerous recipe. Having someone to encourage me and walk along side me made a massive difference when talk therapy appointments felt so separated from daily life. A mentor was there to push (and drag) me towards the actions I needed to take. 10 years later I still stay in touch with my mentor and think of him as a friend and ally.

My husband and I hired James Farmer to mentor our 18 year old son after he was sent away for a year in wilderness camp and then residential rehab. We were apprehensive about his return. James was the only support we had in place to help our son integrate back into the life he was forced to leave behind a year earlier. Upon his return, they met twice weekly for a period of three months. Our son had no choice, as this was a condition we had set before he came home. So much was at stake. It would be great to say they hit it off and became great friends. But that was not the case. Still? They respected each other. Both were good listeners. Both attentive to the other. James was professional, kind and compassionate, but he didn't over-function the way you might expect (or want) a life-coach to perform. He had great boundaries. He had a way of making my son accountable…to himself, more than anyone else. From afar, it seemed like James did so little, but somehow he consistently brought out the best in our son. It was clear right at the beginning..my son would either show up or not. (eeek?). As parents we stepped back, forcing ourselves to trust the process. It wasn’t linear. James would let our son fail, but he always had this ability (without judging) to get him back to the table. (How can a person do this? I have no clue.) Something was happening. As a mother, after every interaction between the two of them, I could actually see it. It was tangible. Something was evolving. I knew their connection had to do with respect, accountability, being seen and some degree of surrender. In the beginning, I was doubtful that my son was capable or ready for such growth. I will forever be grateful to James and the work he does with these young adults. And btw??? My son graduates from UCCS later this year!! Woohoo! Go figure. Thank you, James. You are amazing!

I took the noble Mentours course with James. He taught us all his wisdom to be a better mentour. To be a better person, and just be more present in life. The lessons I learned there will stay with me forever. James is a man of utmost respect, honesty, integrity, and he knows what he was put on this earth to do. He lives according to his values and shares this with everyone that can benefit. A life of unattachment, value, and love. I respect, admire, and love James and am grateful to call him a mentour and a friend. Cheers to life. Whoever is reading this sending you so much love on your journey. Take the step forward here…you will thank yourself for doing so

James was very helpful to me for many years. Was very reasonable to accommodate and I often still use things I learned from him today that help me through interviews when needed or with jobs I had or have. I can’t put into words how appreciative I am to his help as a mentor and how easy and fun he is to talk to.

I wrote a much more detailed review about my work with James in the Google Reviews for his 'Deeper Current Coaching & Darkness Retreats' page which I strongly encourage you to read. I'm unable to post the link. It’s difficult to fully express what James means to me, and the impact he has had on my life. Working with him has been the most meaningful experience I've ever had. He understands me in a way no one ever has, and from the very beginning he has challenged me in ways that stretched my capacity and helped me grow far beyond what I thought possible. His guidance has helped me develop deeper self-trust, resilience, and a stronger sense of purpose rooted in connection. James is so uniquely special and I highly recommend reading that full review. What also makes Noble Mentors so powerful is the incredible team James has built. I’ve had the privilege of working closely with several of them. Andrew has been a live-in mentor for me, staying at my house several nights a week. Our primary focus has been intensive ERP work for my OCD, and I've made significant progress. Andrew has also helped me cultivate invaluable life skills that I previously lacked. He has taught me how to cook and I now feel confident in the kitchen, able to prepare several delicious meals. He is teaching me Qi Gong, new mindfulness modalities, and has helped me cultivate a consistent journaling practice. He has helped me improve my executive functioning in my home, develop logistical adult life skills, learn new handy skills, and build healthier morning and evening routines, improving my sleep hygiene and overall well-being. He has also been a steady emotional presence during difficult moments — attuned, thoughtful, and always offering grounded perspective and wise advice. Together, we are turning my life around and I feel much more confident about my future Jake has also been an amazing presence in my life. I’ve gone to him during moments of struggle, adversity, sadness, and during challenging opportunities where deep integration has occurred, resulting in profound growth. He specifically works with me on Circling-related skills and practices, as I’m currently finishing a course to become a Circling facilitator and he is involved in that program. Jake is such a special and unique human being. He possesses deep wisdom, a grounded presence, empathy, and warmth that most people decades older would aspire to possess. He consistently meets me where I am with deep understanding, patience, and insight. Lastly, there is Isaiah. Isaiah is simply the man. He is an inspiration for me and embodies everything I want to be as a man and as a father. He has a brilliant future ahead of him as a therapist. He is very smart, creative, and I always have the best time with him. In my most immobilizing depressions, he has been a rock I leaned on, getting me out of the house, pushing me in necessary ways, and showing up empathetically when I was isolated. He was there for me in a patient, present way, meeting me where I was. Isaiah is also very musically talented (as is Jake), and we’ve had great times jamming. Playing music together has been a joy and a gift. He has helped me with many practical and logistical life skills, and I’ve learned a lot from him simply by spending time together and asking questions. When I have been overwhelmed with a lot on my plate, he has helped me get organized and we've knocked things off my list together and then on my own, reminding me and reinforcing that I am capable in those moments. He is not only one of my mentors — he is a true friend. Watching him balance being an incredible father and husband to his beautiful family while doing this meaningful work makes him even more inspiring. He represents the kind of man I aspire to be. Noble Mentors has changed my life. The level of care, presence, wisdom, and genuine human connection that James and his team provide goes far beyond anything I’ve experienced. If you’re looking for mentorship that is deeply personal, growth-oriented, and truly transformative. I cannot recommend them

We’ve worked with this mentoring company for several years, and they’ve been a steady, positive support. They meet them where they are and helped us with emotional support, academics, and practical life skills—especially when we needed it most. I’m truly grateful and would absolutely recommend them.

My parents and I are deeply grateful for the profound impact James has had on my brother’s life. My brother lives with schizophrenia and substance use disorder, and has needed more support than our family could provide alone. As many know, this population can be difficult to reach and support effectively. James stepped into that space with compassion and consistency. He communicated thoughtfully with our family, offering steady guidance during crises and reassurance in moments of uncertainty. James built a genuine relationship with my brother. He knew when to guide, when to challenge, and when to simply be present. In every interaction, James met my brother where he was. With time he became a trusted companion to my brother and at times like family to us. Despite the many hardships and barriers mental illness can bring, through James’s dedication, my brother has made real invaluable progress. With complete confidence, I recommend James to anyone seeking a skilled mentor for a loved one navigating mental illness. Through his leadership I have no doubt that he will also be exceptional at training other mentors who hope to make a difference the way he has. We can’t thank him enough as a family.

James and his team provided connective and nurturing mentorship at a critical juncture for a family member. We will be forever grateful for their support!

I have been working with James for over a year now. It started out as mentorship to guide me in better parenting my son. It quickly became more than that and he became my main support while going through the toughest period of my life. He is so kind and warm and was able to hold space for me through all of the difficulties I was facing. He has a way of making you feel safe and heard even over zoom. I truly felt he was in the room with me when we met. His insight, encouragement and guidance has given me a new way to move through and look at the world. I will be forever grateful for the work I have done and continue to do with him

If everyone had a James in their life, we would all be healthy, emotionally intelligent, resilient people who could handle any life stressor with grace. His ability to understand the breadth and depth of a family system is unparalleled. James has a gift for meeting each person exactly where they are, without judgment, and holding space with such clarity and intention that even the most difficult situations begin to feel manageable. He becomes the rudder in your life, helping you focus less on the turbulence of daily emotions and more on finding balance and direction through it all. I am profoundly grateful to James for the way he has supported our entire family showing each of us how to become our own source of resilience and grounding. Working with him is not just about getting through a hard time, it’s about learning how to thrive long after. I’m thrilled to hear about his mentoring program and the ripple effect it will have, helping other mentors transform countless lives.

James is an amazing person and very skilled in mentoring and helping to shape mentors. He's extremely approachable, thoughtful and wise. Our family is so very appreciative of all he'd done to help us.