Therapeutic Mentoring · Ages 9–35

Therapeutic Mentoring for Teens & Young Adults

A one-on-one mentor for your teenager or young adult, a trained, trusted guide who helps them feel more confident, capable, and prepared to handle the challenges of everyday life.

Serving Lafayette, Boulder, Denver & surrounding Colorado communities, in person and virtually.

Therapeutic Mentoring for Teens & Young Adults

15

Years mentoring young people

300+

Families served

20+

Experienced mentors

7 Days

Or less, from your call to a first session

★★★★★  Rated 5.0 on Google by Colorado families

You Can See Them Struggling. They Won’t Let You Help.

Most parents who call us are watching a capable young person shrink from life, and everything they try seems to make it worse. Therapeutic mentoring exists for exactly this moment.

They’re withdrawn and stuck

More time in their room, less time with friends, no interest in things they used to love, and every question gets one-word answers.

Therapy alone isn’t moving the needle

They may have a therapist (or refuse one). Either way, insight in an office isn’t turning into action in daily life.

School and motivation are slipping

Missing assignments, shrugged-off consequences, and a growing gap between what they could do and what they’re doing.

Screens have taken over

Gaming and scrolling have become the default, and taking the phone away just starts a war.

Every conversation becomes a battle

You’re carrying the worry alone, and the harder you push, the further they pull away.

You’re out of ideas

You’ve read the books and tried the consequences. What’s missing isn’t effort, it’s the right person beside them.

If any of this sounds like your home, a therapeutic mentor may be exactly the missing piece.

A Mentor Changes What a Parent Can’t

A young adult mentor is a trusted older guide who is not mom or dad, which is precisely why it works. Here’s what families see when therapeutic mentoring takes hold:

They open up to someone

A mentor for a teenager works because it’s a relationship they chose, someone who listens without an agenda and earns real trust.

Confidence built by doing

Sessions happen in the real world, climbing, cooking, driving, applying, so confidence comes from evidence, not pep talks.

Momentum in daily life

Sleep, school, exercise, friendships, small wins stack into visible momentum within weeks, not years.

Skills that stick

Emotional regulation, communication, and life skills practiced where they’re actually used, not just discussed.

Peace returns home

When a mentor carries the accountability, you get to go back to being the parent, not the enforcer.

A path toward independence

Our mentoring programs for youth are built to end well: a young person who can run their own life, and knows it.

One Mentor. Whatever They’re Facing.

Therapeutic mentoring meets your child where they are. Our mentors support young people ages 9–35 across areas like:

Anxiety & low moodConfidence & self-esteemSchool motivation & academicsADHD & executive functionSocial skills & friendshipsScreens & gaming balanceLife skills & independenceFitness & healthy routinesPurpose & directionFamily communication

Not Just Any Mentor. A Noble Mentor.

Mentors, trained and supervised

Every mentor is trained by our founder and clinically overseen by our Clinical Director, Joseph DeNicholas, LCSW. Skilled, vetted, and supported, never winging it.

20+ five-star Google reviews

Colorado families consistently rate us 5.0, because we measure success by real change, not sessions completed.

A proven 7-stage framework

Our mentoring follows a clear arc from first connection to lasting independence, so you always know where things stand and what comes next.

Truly personalized matching

We match on personality, interests, and needs, not availability. The right fit is why our clients actually engage.

Real life, not an office

Sessions happen where life happens, over coffee, on a trail, at the gym, at the kitchen table, so skills stick in the real world.

Fast, local, flexible

Based in Lafayette and serving the Boulder–Denver corridor in person (and virtually anywhere), with first sessions within the week.

Talk to Us About Your Child

In one free call, you’ll get honest guidance on whether a mentor for your young adult or teen is the right next step, and which mentor we’d match them with.

Free 40-minute call · No pressure, no obligation · Talk directly with our team

Who This Is For, and Who It Isn’t

A great fit if…

  • Your child is 9–35 and stuck, anxious, unmotivated, or drifting, and needs more than an hour of talk a week
  • You want practical, real-world support that works alongside therapy (or when therapy has been refused)
  • You’re looking for a positive role model, a mentor for students and young people who leads by example
  • You want a program with structure, goals, and someone who keeps you in the loop

Not the right fit if…

  • Your child is in acute crisis or at risk of harm, that needs immediate clinical care, and we’ll help point you to it
  • You’re looking for a residential or wilderness placement rather than help at home
  • You want tutoring only, we build the person first; grades follow
James Farmer, founder of Noble Mentors

James Farmer

Founder · 15 years of mentoring · 300+ families

The People Behind the Work

Mentors Your Child Will Actually Connect With

Our team of 20+ mentors includes coaches, outdoor guides, artists, athletes, and academic specialists, real people with real stories young people respect. This is what separates a therapeutic mentor from a generic youth mentor: training, supervision, and intent behind every relationship.

Every mentor is personally trained by our founder, James Farmer, and the whole team works under the clinical oversight of our Clinical Director, Joseph DeNicholas, LCSW, a licensed clinician who consults on every case. Mentoring is not therapy; it’s the practical, relational layer that helps everything else work.

How matching works: tell us about your child, their personality, struggles, and interests, and we hand-pick 1–2 mentors we believe they’ll genuinely click with. You meet the mentor before anything starts.

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What Parents and Young People Say

★★★★★

“Having someone to encourage me and walk along side me made a massive difference when talk therapy appointments felt so separated from daily life. A mentor was there to push (and drag) me towards the actions I needed to take.”

Casey G. · Google review

★★★★★

“They’ve been a steady, positive support. They meet them where they are and helped us with emotional support, academics, and practical life skills, especially when we needed it most.”

Dawn M. · Google review

★★★★★

“I often still use things I learned from him today that help me through interviews when needed or with jobs I had or have. I can’t put into words how appreciative I am to his help as a mentor.”

August G. · Google review

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Will Strohbusch
33 days ago
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James approach and commitment to mentorship is admirable. He’s aided many prospective mentors, families and clients alike in evolving and working towards healthy and fulfilling lives. His dynamic mentorship approach is seemingly endless and he’s a real pro at working with people from all different backgrounds with the outmost respect, professionalism and dedication on their path towards wellness. James’ North Star Vision of being more whole in his own life, working towards his calling while also serving others has made him an exceptional mentor. He has facilitated and challenged me to evolve in my relationships and the same could be said for many others. He really demonstrates his gentle wisdom through his actions. Thank you James for all of your hard work and commitment to excellence in Noble Mentorship! The results simply speak for themselves.
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Casey Guay
127 days ago
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Noble mentors helped me greatly as a young adult. Living multiple states away from immediate family and struggling with mental health was a dangerous recipe. Having someone to encourage me and walk along side me made a massive difference when talk therapy appointments felt so separated from daily life. A mentor was there to push (and drag) me towards the actions I needed to take. 10 years later I still stay in touch with my mentor and think of him as a friend and ally.
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Bren Frisch
141 days ago
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My husband and I hired James Farmer to mentor our 18 year old son after he was sent away for a year in wilderness camp and then residential rehab. We were apprehensive about his return. James was the only support we had in place to help our son integrate back into the life he was forced to leave behind a year earlier. Upon his return, they met twice weekly for a period of three months. Our son had no choice, as this was a condition we had set before he came home. So much was at stake. It would be great to say they hit it off and became great friends. But that was not the case. Still? They respected each other. Both were good listeners. Both attentive to the other. James was professional, kind and compassionate, but he didn't over-function the way you might expect (or want) a life-coach to perform. He had great boundaries. He had a way of making my son accountable…to himself, more than anyone else. From afar, it seemed like James did so little, but somehow he consistently brought out the best in our son. It was clear right at the beginning..my son would either show up or not. (eeek?). As parents we stepped back, forcing ourselves to trust the process. It wasn’t linear. James would let our son fail, but he always had this ability (without judging) to get him back to the table. (How can a person do this? I have no clue.) Something was happening. As a mother, after every interaction between the two of them, I could actually see it. It was tangible. Something was evolving. I knew their connection had to do with respect, accountability, being seen and some degree of surrender. In the beginning, I was doubtful that my son was capable or ready for such growth. I will forever be grateful to James and the work he does with these young adults. And btw??? My son graduates from UCCS later this year!! Woohoo! Go figure. Thank you, James. You are amazing!
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Evan Metz
142 days ago
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I took the noble Mentours course with James. He taught us all his wisdom to be a better mentour. To be a better person, and just be more present in life. The lessons I learned there will stay with me forever. James is a man of utmost respect, honesty, integrity, and he knows what he was put on this earth to do. He lives according to his values and shares this with everyone that can benefit. A life of unattachment, value, and love. I respect, admire, and love James and am grateful to call him a mentour and a friend. Cheers to life. Whoever is reading this sending you so much love on your journey. Take the step forward here…you will thank yourself for doing so
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August Grier
142 days ago
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James was very helpful to me for many years. Was very reasonable to accommodate and I often still use things I learned from him today that help me through interviews when needed or with jobs I had or have. I can’t put into words how appreciative I am to his help as a mentor and how easy and fun he is to talk to.
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Jesse L-S
146 days ago
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I wrote a much more detailed review about my work with James in the Google Reviews for his 'Deeper Current Coaching & Darkness Retreats' page which I strongly encourage you to read. I'm unable to post the link. It’s difficult to fully express what James means to me, and the impact he has had on my life. Working with him has been the most meaningful experience I've ever had. He understands me in a way no one ever has, and from the very beginning he has challenged me in ways that stretched my capacity and helped me grow far beyond what I thought possible. His guidance has helped me develop deeper self-trust, resilience, and a stronger sense of purpose rooted in connection. James is so uniquely special and I highly recommend reading that full review. What also makes Noble Mentors so powerful is the incredible team James has built. I’ve had the privilege of working closely with several of them. Andrew has been a live-in mentor for me, staying at my house several nights a week. Our primary focus has been intensive ERP work for my OCD, and I've made significant progress. Andrew has also helped me cultivate invaluable life skills that I previously lacked. He has taught me how to cook and I now feel confident in the kitchen, able to prepare several delicious meals. He is teaching me Qi Gong, new mindfulness modalities, and has helped me cultivate a consistent journaling practice. He has helped me improve my executive functioning in my home, develop logistical adult life skills, learn new handy skills, and build healthier morning and evening routines, improving my sleep hygiene and overall well-being. He has also been a steady emotional presence during difficult moments — attuned, thoughtful, and always offering grounded perspective and wise advice. Together, we are turning my life around and I feel much more confident about my future Jake has also been an amazing presence in my life. I’ve gone to him during moments of struggle, adversity, sadness, and during challenging opportunities where deep integration has occurred, resulting in profound growth. He specifically works with me on Circling-related skills and practices, as I’m currently finishing a course to become a Circling facilitator and he is involved in that program. Jake is such a special and unique human being. He possesses deep wisdom, a grounded presence, empathy, and warmth that most people decades older would aspire to possess. He consistently meets me where I am with deep understanding, patience, and insight. Lastly, there is Isaiah. Isaiah is simply the man. He is an inspiration for me and embodies everything I want to be as a man and as a father. He has a brilliant future ahead of him as a therapist. He is very smart, creative, and I always have the best time with him. In my most immobilizing depressions, he has been a rock I leaned on, getting me out of the house, pushing me in necessary ways, and showing up empathetically when I was isolated. He was there for me in a patient, present way, meeting me where I was. Isaiah is also very musically talented (as is Jake), and we’ve had great times jamming. Playing music together has been a joy and a gift. He has helped me with many practical and logistical life skills, and I’ve learned a lot from him simply by spending time together and asking questions. When I have been overwhelmed with a lot on my plate, he has helped me get organized and we've knocked things off my list together and then on my own, reminding me and reinforcing that I am capable in those moments. He is not only one of my mentors — he is a true friend. Watching him balance being an incredible father and husband to his beautiful family while doing this meaningful work makes him even more inspiring. He represents the kind of man I aspire to be. Noble Mentors has changed my life. The level of care, presence, wisdom, and genuine human connection that James and his team provide goes far beyond anything I’ve experienced. If you’re looking for mentorship that is deeply personal, growth-oriented, and truly transformative. I cannot recommend them
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Dawn Mack
208 days ago
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We’ve worked with this mentoring company for several years, and they’ve been a steady, positive support. They meet them where they are and helped us with emotional support, academics, and practical life skills—especially when we needed it most. I’m truly grateful and would absolutely recommend them.
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Lynn Kohlmeier Nisco
285 days ago
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My parents and I are deeply grateful for the profound impact James has had on my brother’s life. My brother lives with schizophrenia and substance use disorder, and has needed more support than our family could provide alone. As many know, this population can be difficult to reach and support effectively. James stepped into that space with compassion and consistency. He communicated thoughtfully with our family, offering steady guidance during crises and reassurance in moments of uncertainty. James built a genuine relationship with my brother. He knew when to guide, when to challenge, and when to simply be present. In every interaction, James met my brother where he was. With time he became a trusted companion to my brother and at times like family to us. Despite the many hardships and barriers mental illness can bring, through James’s dedication, my brother has made real invaluable progress. With complete confidence, I recommend James to anyone seeking a skilled mentor for a loved one navigating mental illness. Through his leadership I have no doubt that he will also be exceptional at training other mentors who hope to make a difference the way he has. We can’t thank him enough as a family.
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Jon Banashek
286 days ago
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James and his team provided connective and nurturing mentorship at a critical juncture for a family member. We will be forever grateful for their support!
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wendy poulin
307 days ago
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I have been working with James for over a year now. It started out as mentorship to guide me in better parenting my son. It quickly became more than that and he became my main support while going through the toughest period of my life. He is so kind and warm and was able to hold space for me through all of the difficulties I was facing. He has a way of making you feel safe and heard even over zoom. I truly felt he was in the room with me when we met. His insight, encouragement and guidance has given me a new way to move through and look at the world. I will be forever grateful for the work I have done and continue to do with him
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lasharona
308 days ago
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If everyone had a James in their life, we would all be healthy, emotionally intelligent, resilient people who could handle any life stressor with grace. His ability to understand the breadth and depth of a family system is unparalleled. James has a gift for meeting each person exactly where they are, without judgment, and holding space with such clarity and intention that even the most difficult situations begin to feel manageable. He becomes the rudder in your life, helping you focus less on the turbulence of daily emotions and more on finding balance and direction through it all. I am profoundly grateful to James for the way he has supported our entire family showing each of us how to become our own source of resilience and grounding. Working with him is not just about getting through a hard time, it’s about learning how to thrive long after. I’m thrilled to hear about his mentoring program and the ripple effect it will have, helping other mentors transform countless lives.
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Beth Strohbusch
308 days ago
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James is an amazing person and very skilled in mentoring and helping to shape mentors. He's extremely approachable, thoughtful and wise. Our family is so very appreciative of all he'd done to help us.

 

Getting Started Is Simple

1

A free 40-minute call

Tell us what’s going on. We’ll listen, answer your questions, and be honest about whether we can help.

2

We match the right mentor

Based on your call, we hand-pick a mentor by personality and interests. You approve the match before anything begins.

3

First session, often within days

Most families go from first call to first session within the first week, often in just a few days. No waitlists, no lengthy intake process.

4

A steady weekly rhythm

Your mentor keeps you in the loop as trust builds and momentum grows, with goals you can actually see progress on.

Frequently Asked Questions

How is therapeutic mentoring different from therapy?

Therapy works on healing in a clinical setting; therapeutic mentoring turns growth into action in everyday life. Many of our clients do both, the mentor reinforces what therapy opens up. Mentoring is not therapy, and our whole team works under the clinical oversight of our Clinical Director, a licensed clinical social worker.

My teenager refuses help. Will they refuse this too?

This is the most common worry we hear, and where mentoring shines. There’s no office, no clipboard, no “treatment.” It starts as time with a likable older guide doing things your teen actually enjoys. Resistance usually fades within a session or two.

What does it cost?

Mentoring is $125 per hour, with monthly packages available for deeper support at a reduced rate. We’ll help you find a structure that fits your family’s needs and budget on the call.

Where and how often do sessions happen?

Most families start with 1–2 sessions per week, in person around Lafayette, Boulder, Denver and nearby, or virtually. Sessions happen out in real life, wherever growth needs to happen.

How fast can we start?

Usually withwithin the first week, often in just a few days of your first call. Reaching out today means momentum this week.

Give Them a Mentor Who Changes the Trajectory

You’ve watched them struggle long enough. One conversation with our team, and you’ll know exactly what therapeutic mentoring could look like for your family.

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